I’ve been neglecting my inbox for over a month. I’m sorry. Please don’t be discouraged by me not publishing your ask or not getting back to you privately. I have AVPD and general social anxiety, and my bday was earlier this month, so my whole brain went NOPE. As of this post i still haven’t read any birthday messages left for me on fb and friends are lucky if their post is the very top of my feed because that’s usually the only way i’ll see/like it.
I know i suck. Your lovely messages give me life when i beat my own brain into silence.
Ever Find It Funny…
…how modern Tumblr feminists act all big and tough, “LAWL SMASH DA PATRIARCHYYYY” yet turn around and act like other women that aren’t them need to be ‘saved.’ Any choice that doesn’t coincide with THEIR beliefs are delusioned, “noooo men are controlling youuuu” choices?
No, we don’t need you to …
Why don’t you just shut up and go back worshipping some dick if men are sooo awesome. Nobody wants to “save” you anyway.
This person sounds like talking parrots on Reddit with zero world experience, so it’s no use arguing with them. They’re the kinda person who, no matter what you counter with, goes “see this means i win!” which kinda betrays their maturity. They think radfem is the new modern version of feminism instead of the older, more successful one that allowed them to pretend their sex-pos “choice” feminism does squat now.
They won’t bother to learn most anti-kink fems were those abused in the kink communities, or former sex workers privy to the horrors of what sadism really is. They won’t listen why the “no true scotsman” argument is humanly flawed. Trying to explain to them misogyny and rape culture doesn’t stop just because participants in those acts are women, will fall on deaf ears (because if one woman OK’s something it’s a free pass, but if one woman complains about the same thing she’s a traitor to us all). Hell, they don’t even believe in feminism and think feminists are the evil controlling ones. That right there shows how unwittingly groomed they’ve been.
With time, they’ll hopefully start to realize. They’ll look back on their behavior in disgust, like many of us do with age. They’ll work to lift women up instead of throwing them under the bus. There will come a day when they see sex and getting the approval of men around them isn’t the number one priority, and maybe they’ll feel a little ashamed for using lesbians and bisexuals as a trump card instead of real persons. At some point, this person is going to finally see how misogyny is so normalized in our development that women are taught to defend it in a second so men are free to go about their day deaf to the criticism. I just truly hope they don’t have to be one of the many hurt for this knowledge to come.
Anonymous asked: Have u heard of jack frost ? Have u two went on a date?
this is why we can’t have nice things, people